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Be Thankful and Use Feng Shui to Give Back
I’m a glass is half-full type of gal, but I know that not everything in life will go our way.
Along with Feng Shui, being thankful is the best way to achieve inner peace and harmony, along with health, prosperity and everything else that follows.
Be Thankful
Being thankful can be a difficult skill to master, but it can be one of the most rewarding goals you will ever accomplish.
Start simple… and even maybe a little materialistic. You can begin by being thankful for what you have, like your home and your car.
As you progress, you will find yourself appreciating not so much what you have, but rather who you have. You’ll likely be thankful for the relationships you’ve shared and the lessons that you have learned in life.
As you master your new found skill of appreciation, you’ll notice the little things in the wide world around you. The colors of the changing foliage and the fresh air will be amplified for you.
You will eventually find yourself open to new opportunities and new relationships.
You will notice that you are happy.
And so will others.
Your contagious smile and graciousness will be magnetic. Positive energy and great things will come to you.
At this point, you should focus on your goals. What do you want to achieve in life and how do you want to help others? Be thankful for these things as if they have already happened. Your new gift of thankfulness will seem like magic.
Give When You Get
Today, I am particularly thankful for all of my readers and clients.
With that, I am going to introduce another concept… give when you get.
From now through Christmas Eve, 20% of all home and office consultation fees will go to charity, including St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital. St. Jude is a wonderful organization that advances cures and means of prevention for pediatric catastrophic diseases. 81 cents of every dollar donated to St. Jude goes directly to its research and treatment. All medically eligible patients who are accepted for treatment at St. Jude are treated without regard to the family’s ability to pay.
When you get my Feng Shui expertise to improve your home or office, you will also be giving to a wonderful organization and families in need. What can be better?
This is my way of giving thanks while helping you give when you get.
Next Steps
Are you looking for a Feng Shui consultant you can trust? Learn a little more about me and how I can help you add harmony and balance to your home or office the Feng Shui way. Contact me today!
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Mirrors in Feng Shui
Mirrors have a very interesting relationship with Feng Shui. Of course, they’re great at making rooms seem more spacious and seem to amplify light. In Feng Shui, they are a symbol of the water element and we can utilize their incredible ability to reflect virtually everything, including Feng Shui energy called Chi (or “Qi”).
Often used as a cure for a variety of Feng Shui challenges, mirrors are used to reflect and direct both positive and negative Chi energy however we see fit.
But, where do we want that energy to go? Well, that all depends on the area of the home we’re trying to enhance.
Using Mirrors Outside
As I have highlighted in previous posts, certain types of mirrors can be used to deflect negative energy coming from a neighbor’s front door aligned with yours, used to deflect overwhelming energy at a T-intersection, and can deflect churning energy on a cul-de-sac or corner lot.
Place your convex Bagua mirror above your door on the interior wall facing toward the street. Yes, you won’t actually see the mirror.
As a quick cure for any of the above, the best choice is to simply place a convex Bagua mirror above your front door facing the street (such that the reflection virtually goes through your wall).
Now, let’s discuss how we use mirrors at various locations inside the home.
Mirrors in the Bedroom
Never place a mirror where it will face a bed. Think of a mirror as a magnifying glass that will amplify energy flow toward your body as you sleep. One problem with this is that it causes restlessness.
Worse, many of my clients that previously had mirrors facing their bed complained of pain such as headaches, leg aches or stomach cramps — which had been exactly where their mirrors were facing. Remove the mirror and voila! No more pain.
Again, never have a mirror that faces those sleeping in the bed, even on the ceiling (sorry guys). In fact, it is best to leave mirrors out of bedrooms altogether.
Mirrors in the Bathroom
Water is the dominant element in a bathroom. Mirrors enhance your space and allow you to get a perspective on yourself. We often look in the mirror to improve ourselves, right? Well, we might as well improve every part we can.
Thus, I suggest a full-length mirror in the bathroom, such that its reflection does not cut off any parts of your body.
Mirrors in Bagua Areas
Some Bagua areas will benefit from mirrors more than others. In particular, mirrors are good to use in the Career & Life Path Area (but not toward your front door), Family Area, and Wealth & Prosperity Corner.
Try to use corresponding colors, materials, and shapes for the mirror and its frame when possible. For example, use a vertical rectangular mirror with a green and/or wooden frame in the Family Area.
Avoid using mirrors of any kind in your Fame & Reputation Area, as this will extinguish your fire element that is necessary here.
Best Practices
Placing a mirror at your front foyer toward your front door is bad because it pushes back all of the Chi entering your home, preventing it from energizing your house.
Avoid having mirrors that face each other. This can create a barrier that will stop energy from flowing through your home.
Don’t overdo it with mirrors, especially all in one place. Sometimes, less is more.
Replace chipped or cracked mirrors. Relationships are negatively affected by broken mirrors.
Give children full-length mirrors to improve their self-esteem.
Unless your fireplace is in the Fame & Reputation Area of your home, you may want to douse it with figurative water. Hang a mirror directly over your fireplace to neutralize its effects.
Adding some plants near a mirror will rejuvenate and enhance the flow of Chi energy through your surroundings.
Mirrors should always be framed around their edges.
Next Steps
Learn more about Feng Shui and all of the areas of the Bagua.
I am a 3rd generation Feng Shui expert and have helped thousands of people add harmony and balance to their homes and offices without making it look like a Chinese restaurant exploded.
I can help you attract the life that you deserve with Feng Shui. Contact me today!
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Feng Shui Front Door Colors
The appropriate color to paint your front door can be confusing.
Aren’t you always supposed to have a red front door? Not exactly.
Some people say that having a red front door attracts negative energy. Others say red is the best color to use, despite the fact that it is in your Career Area, which should be predominantly blue or black.
Which Color is Correct?
As with many things in Feng Shui, the color you choose for your front door depends more on what you want to attract.
For instance, are you looking to bring in some wealth? Go for red.
Do you need to add some stability to your life? Brown is the best choice for you.
Here are various colors for your front door and what they are known to attract in Feng Shui:
- Red = Wealth
- Green = Growth
- Blue = Relaxation
- Brown = Stability
Next Steps
Read more on colors in Feng Shui as well as the various aspects of your Career Area.
Remember that painting your front door is only one part of a balanced and harmonious home or office. Be sure you learn more about Feng Shui and make positive changes to all areas of the Bagua.
If you need additional help, contact me to inquire about a consultation. I will help you achieve the life that you deserve without making your home look like a Chinese restaurant exploded.
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Corner Lot Feng Shui and Cures
Just as nobody puts Baby in a corner, nobody puts Feng Shui in a corner (lot home, that is).
Though it is best not to get yourself in a corner lot house situation, I do offer cures to make the most of your situation if you already live in a corner lot home.
Basic Feng Shui Advice
Simply: Great for businesses, bad for homes.
As I noted about cul-de-sac homes and T-intersection properties previously, my first advice to someone considering a corner lot home is to stay away.
As with cul-de-sac homes, home builders were once able to charge a premium for corner lots. In areas with more buyers knowledgable of Feng Shui, however, they now often find that corner lot homes are the last to go.
Moreover, you might notice that a common theme for foreclosure listings are homes on a corner lot, cul-de-sac or at a T-intersection.
With much in Feng Shui, including corner lots, the issues are really just common sense rather than just energy flow.
Pros & Cons
Not that corner lots are completely bad. Let’s look at the pros and cons of a corner lot.
Advantages:
- More yard space
- Half as many neighbors
- Corner lot businesses are easier to find
- Highly visible decorations or signage
- Emergency services may respond faster
Disadvantages:
- More sidewalk or fencing to maintain
- Noisier traffic & pedestrians
- More headlights point at windows
- Pedestrians taking shortcuts through yard
- Cars turn around in your driveway
- Yard more likely to be used by dogs
- Exposure to car crashes
In addition to the above, Feng Shui suggests that corner lots offer the following disadvantages:
- Energy gets stuck coming around corners
- Energy erodes at the property, causing long-term health and financial issues
- Poison arrow created by diagonally opposite property
- Poison arrows from the car headlights pointing at the home
Feng Shui Cures
What if you already live in a corner lot home?
Resolving the Feng Shui issues is very similar with the resolutions offered for a cul-de-sac home. You will want to ensure that the Feng Shui energy called Chi (or “Qi”) doesn’t get stuck and that you slowly navigate it to your home’s front door.
Start by slowing the crossing energy coming at your home. Utilize landscaping like tall shrubs, walls, fences or even sturdy posts near your front curb (this also helps prevent unsuspecting car drivers from ending up in your living room).
Now, add some water and wind features between your curbside landscaping and the doorway. Try utilizing a pond, pool, water fountain or birdbath. Any calm flowing water feature will do. You could also add windmills or other moving garden elements. Adding elements such as these helps slow down and refresh your incoming Chi.
Next, create a pathway that winds from the curb to your front door such that it navigates its way through the landscaping effects at the curb and through your garden features to your front door.
Make sure that the lighting at your front door is uplifting and bright.
As I suggest as a quick cure with T-intersection homes, use a convex Bagua mirror at your doorway to bounce away the effects of those poison arrows pointing at your home. It doesn’t need to be visible from outside.
Next Steps
You deserve to live a life of abundant wealth and health. Make sure that your home is providing for you.
Remember that the Feng Shui of corner lot homes can be very problematic.
Don’t ignore them!
If these cures don’t work for you, there may be other Feng Shui factors involved with the interior of your particular house. Take necessary steps because you deserve to live a life of harmony and balance. Start by reviewing the Feng Shui Bagua of your home.
If you run into any problems along the way or are looking for some professional guidance, contact me. I pride myself in adding harmony and balance while not making it look like a Chinese restaurant exploded in your home. You can get a consultation in-person or virtually via video chat.
I am a 3rd generation Feng Shui expert and have helped thousands of people add harmony and balance to their homes and offices the Feng Shui way. As your consultant, you will be able to get one-on-one advice for how to attract positive energy and improve your life with Feng Shui. I offer in-home and virtual services. Contact me today!
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Improve Your Sex Life with Feng Shui
Improve Your Sex Life with Feng Shui
Can sexual energy be enhanced by Feng Shui? Believe me, Feng Shui is all about energy!
I’ve written previous posts on how to attract love with Feng Shui. Now, let’s make things a little more steamy!
Sex can be beautiful and full of love. It can also heal and add passion to a relationship. In fact, many psychologists feel that regular, healthy sexual encounters is the backbone of many loving relationships.
Whether you are single or are looking to liven things up after several years of marriage, Feng Shui can help improve your sex life. Follow these tips to get the juices flowing.
Objects of Passion
In the Love Corner of your home and especially in the Love Corner of your bedroom, add a couple symbols that represent healthy and passionate sex for you.
It could be the Kama Sutra, naughty pictures hidden in a drawer or even figurines of Venus and Cupid.
Whatever they are, choose symbols that can independently get your sexual energy up.
Colors of Passion
Pink and white are great for adding love and passion. But, red, in particular, attracts energy, especially sexual energy.
Go ahead, change out the sheets with something silky and red.
Clarify your Passion
If sex is your only intention, ensure you appropriately communicate that to the Universe and your partner.
To keep love at bay for the time-being, avoid some of the other symbolism and colors that I would normally suggest for attracting love.
And please, openly communicate with your partner that sex, not love, is all that can be expected of the relationship.
Prepare for Passion
Get your bedroom ready because things are about to get steamy. Make sure the room’s setting is romantic and private.
Start by ensuring that your curtains can cover up the windows.
Add some warmth to the room and make sure that the bedding is comfortable.
Use aromatic candles or jasmine essential oil and don’t forget to queue up some Marvin Gaye songs!
What to Avoid
Especially if you are looking to add sexual energy to a loving relationship, there are several things that you want to avoid.
First, avoid family pictures in your bedroom. It is a place for you and your partner – not your children or parents.
Keep the work and workout routines out of the bedroom, as they can frequently interfere with passion.
Get rid of any cold, sad or lonely imagery.
That seductive yet sad-looking picture of the woman lying on the couch? Nope. In fact, just toss it. There is no place for that in your home if you’ve read this far.
While you’re at it, no dead flowers or desolate winter landscapes… anywhere.
Your bedroom is also not a place for any single objects (unless you want to remain single).
Have objects in pairs to represent a relationship. I’m speaking of two pillows, two bedside tables, two lamps, etc.
As with anything Feng Shui, eliminate the clutter.
If you have a fireplace in your bedroom, add a mirror or a painting of a calm water scene on top. Making the best of a situation, the fire and water together will add a little steaminess to your relationship. Otherwise, avoid mirrors in the room.
Next Steps
The most important step is to have fun. Don’t get too serious about this. All that will do is add stress. Who knows… you may even find love along the way (if that’s what you desire).
As with anything in Feng Shui, don’t focus too much on one area of the Bagua without adding some balance to the other areas. Start by countering with the Knowledge Area.
Learn more about Feng Shui to make sure you are attracting the right kind of energy and that it flows harmoniously through your home.
If the above advice doesn’t work for you, there may be other Feng Shui factors involved with your particular house, such as stagnant energy or no energy coming from the street. A consultation or space clearing may be required. Take the necessary steps because you deserve to live a life of harmony and balance.
I am a 3rd generation Feng Shui expert and have helped thousands of people add harmony and balance to their homes and offices the Feng Shui way. As your consultant, you will be able to get one-on-one advice for how to attract positive energy and improve your life with Feng Shui. I offer in-home and virtual services. Contact me today!
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Feng Shui T-Junction & Front Door Cure
The Feng Shui for a home on a T-junction can be quite overwhelming with negative energy, or Chi.
Bad Feng Shui may be ahead with a T-Junction. Fortunately, there are cures.
Fortunately, there are cures.
Convex Bagua Mirror Cure
The easiest short-term Feng Shui cure for homes like this is a convex bagua mirror.
Simply place the bagua mirror above your front door such that it faces the street. This creates the intention of reflecting all the bad Chi away before it even has a chance to come into your home.
You probably don’t want the outside of your home to have this unsightly remedy. No worries. You can still hang it from inside of the house above the doorway.
Regardless, make sure that the mirror itself faces the direction of the street or the neighbor’s front door.
Place your convex Bagua mirror above your door on the interior wall facing toward the street. Yes, you won’t actually see the mirror.
You are understanding me correctly. Because the mirror is inside of your home, you won’t actually see the reflection when you look at the bagua. Rather, the reflective part of the mirror will be facing a wall.
Either way, you are still reflecting the Chi, so it will work just fine.
Next Steps
Remember that T-junctions can be very problematic to Feng Shui.
Don’t ignore them!
While the above is a quick cure, it may not provide long-term benefits to those living on a T-junction. Read about more lasting Feng Shui cures on my cul-de-sac post, which also applies to T-junctions.
If this simple cure doesn’t work for you, even short-term, there may be other Feng Shui factors involved with your particular house. Take the necessary steps because you deserve to live a life of harmony and balance.
I am a 3rd generation Feng Shui expert and have helped thousands of people add harmony and balance to their homes and offices the Feng Shui way. As your consultant, you will be able to get one-on-one advice for how to attract positive energy and improve your life with Feng Shui. I offer in-home and virtual services. Contact me today!
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